[stm] update to 2.5.3.0

Maybe TBQueue is broken on CI:
https://github.com/haskell/stm/issues/76
4 jobs for 304-dev-toml-config-rewrite in 50 minutes and 23 seconds (queued for 5 seconds)
latest
Status Job ID Name Coverage
  Cabal
passed #14758
cabal

00:18:12

 
  Stack
passed #14759
stack

00:03:56

 
  Bench
manual #14760
allowed to fail manual
bench
 
  Test
passed #14761
test

00:28:14